5 Actions That Jerks Do To Attract Women, Part 1

5 Actions That Jerks Do To Attract Women, Part 1

Its the age old question every "nice guy" ends up asking himself at one time or another... "Im a good guy, so why is it all the jerks get the women and Im stuck being alone?" Sometimes, its easy to believe that Jerks have some type of magical power that allows them to sucker women into liking them and somehow have them hang around while they treat them like dirt. This happens SO MUCH, that some guys believe that they actually have to BECOME Jerks to get women attracted to them. But make no mistake about it - no body likes a jerk. Not even the women who date them! So if thats the case, why is it obvious that they get so many girls to go for them? Well, remember that Jerks tend to go through lots of women quickly. Most girls will only put up with Jerk behavior for so long before they get sick of it. And those who stick around have such low self esteem as it is, that theyve formed some type of strange attachment to the emotional abuse Jerks doll out. That said, there are a number of things Jerks do to attract women that make them effective seducers and pick up artists. And these are things that "nice guys" can do, and get the same results. Here are the top 5 things Jerks do to get women, and how you can do them too - WITHOUT having to become a prick... 1. Jerks are self-centered One of the big things a Jerk has going for him is that he really doesnt care about other people. In fact, his focus is almost entirely on his own pleasures, thoughts, and feelings. Because of this, when he sees something he wants, he goes after it! When your average "nice guy" sees a hot girl, he might be intimidated. He wants her to like him. He wants approval from her. In short - he cares about what she thinks! But in addition to that, most guys care about what others think too! They worry about a girl rejecting them in front of other people, and what those people will think when they see it happen. Jerks do not have this problem. They could care less about what other people are thinking. The Jerk is only focused on getting what he wants. When you allow yourself to focus on your goals, and set aside fears of judgment from others, this gives you a great deal of focus, and as we all know, focus is KEY to achieving what we desire. 2. Jerks arent afraid to approach women The single, most important step in getting a woman is walking up to her and talking to her. So many guys just DONT DO THIS. They are too shy, or too intimidated by the girl to do so. Instead, they hang back and just stare at her like a big dummy, wishing he could find the balls to meet her. A jerk, on the other hand, just doesnt care if she likes him or not. So no worries, they just do it, without hesitation. Theyre thinking about how hot its going to be to make out with her. Theyre thinking about how much fun it will be to get her in bed. The LAST thing on their mind is "fear of rejection." To a Jerk, if a girl rejects him, theres something wrong with HER, not him. Nice guys will say "Oh, Im too ugly, she doesnt like me." Jerks will say "That bitch is a total lesbian." Just the act of being able to approach a girl and start talking to her puts the Jerk at an advantage, because hes interacting with the girl, and the "nice guy" isnt. To the girl, the nice guy doesnt exist! Thats why women typically have such low opinions of men, because its always the Jerks who are approaching the women while the shy guys sit off in the corner! Jerks realize its not the womans job to approach the guy. If you want something, you have to go after it. So if the Nice Guys were to start walking up and talking to women, they might be surprised to find most women WELCOME their company and really want to meet a good fella to treat them right! 3. Jerks dont censor themselves Part of the reason Jerks come off as fun, interesting, or exciting is because they arent worried about offending anybody. They will talk about whatever, joke about whatever, and even broach "sensitive" topics of conversation without a blink of an eye. Too many "nice guys" hold back when they talk to a girl they like. They NEVER bring up sex. They dont even joke about it. Heck, they dont even display any sign they even LIKE the girl. Because of this, the Nice Guys become the Boring Guys. The Jerk will come along, make an off-color joke, tell the girl a racy story, and even MAKE FUN of the girl! He could care less if he offends somebody. To the Jerk, hes just doing what comes naturally to him. Attitude like this is like a breath of fresh air to many women, because they mistake it as "confidence." But the more they are around the Jerk, the more they realize it isnt confidence at all - its just narcissism, and a complete lack of caring about others. Nice guys can learn a lot from these jerks, though. By putting aside the people pleaser attitude, loosening up, and creating some attraction, theyll get much farther. After that, they can reveal their caring side to her. This ends part 1 of this article, watch for part 2! Joseph Matthews has been teaching men how to meet women since 2004, and is widely recognized as an expert in the subject of confidence building and dating advice. If you want to discover more about how to meet women, check out his complimentary newsletter.

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