How An Ugly Guy Attracts Women
Its a sad fact of life that everyone out there has some type of insecurity that makes them feel "unattractive." Even the most beautiful women in the world have stuff about them that makes them feel ugly at times. Being a man presents the same issue, with a few caveats. We might not have the pressure that women do to look good, but where the pressure stems from, our own visual nature, amplifies this issue for us in regards to our critical nature. Thus, we are in the same boat. Maybe its the fact that we are too short, or fat, or bald, or old? There are any number of factors that make us feel "unworthy" of the attentions of beautiful women. But if that was the case - no one would ever be able to attract a woman at all! In fact, the next time youre out, take a mental note of every guy you see with an attractive girl, and try and appraise whether or not you think that guys looks are worthy of the girl hes with. Sure, sometimes youll find a guy whos with a girl and they are both fine credits to their species. But most of the time, what youll find is the guys with really hot and appealing women range from "average" to "ugly" in the looks department. Thats because beauty - in men - is the exception, not the standard. But more than that, men rely on factors OTHER than their looks to help attract women to them. There are three major factors that most men try and utilize to the best of their ability when attracting new and exciting women to them. They are: 1. Wealth 2. Social Status 3. Personality Lets go through these one at a time... The first factor, wealth, is fairly obvious. Women like rich men. Understand that being a "provider" is what this represents. Youll get their attention for sure, and what woman doesnt want to be secure and pampered? Using wealth as a tactic is problematic, however. Not everyone has a lot of money, so if you dont, forget trying to use this tactic. As well, using money can come off as trying to buy love, or impress them. Some women will treat you like an ATM machine if you do. Dont get me wrong though. Pitfalls aside, it is a reliable tactic. You just have to understand the problems and make sure you actually HAVE the wealth to pull it off. The second factor is social status. Women are very attuned to the social hierarchies of things, so having a "high status" around women definitely makes any man more attractive. This status comes from holding a certain position of power. It could be an important job, some type of fame, or just the esteem of your peers. However, one of the difficulties with this is that you need to be able to display social status. You cant just tell someone "Im a very important person" and have them believe it. They have to get a sense of it themselves, and sometimes your situation is not conducive to communicating this (like meeting a woman on the street for instance. She has no idea who you are!). Also - not everyone has a high social status. Some people are content with maintaining a medium to low level status. Where does that leave these people? With the THIRD factor - that of Personality. The thing I like about personality is that its something EVERYONE can use to attract the kind of women they desire, and it doesnt matter how much money you make or what your social situation is like. Having an attractive personality is the best way for "average" or "unattractive" men to get women interested in them. Being able to make a woman laugh will turn her on more than a guy with big muscles and a full head of hair. Understand that women are slaves to their emotions, and your personality is the method by which you trigger emotions inside a woman! The better your personality, the better youre able to make a woman feel. And your personality is something that can be changed and cultivated over time. You can make yourself into anything you want to be! Its truely amazing how some "losers" can become "rockstars" in the eyes of their friends and the women they like just by tweaking their personality a little bit. So how do you do this? The first step is to really work on your confidence. The more confident you are, the better youre able to display your personality. Working on your social skills will also help you to be relaxed and have fun around women. This will create new opportunities for attraction. And creating a strong emotional ties to you is the best way to create an emotional attachment. Learning to do this is your best bet. Learn these three techniques, and youll be able to gain the heart of any woman you want. It doesnt matter how you look either! Get more of Joseph Matthews superb tips on how to meet women by visiting his homepage and signing up for his complimentary meet women newsletter.