Why Do Men Suddenly Pull Away? Is It You Or Something Else?
What do you do if your boyfriend or husband pulls away and becomes distant? Although a relationship may suddenly seem to go sour, chances are problems have been brewing for quite a while. After all, few people just wake up one morning out of the blue and suddenly decide its time for a new relationship. To fully understand men, you must realize most men are emotionally unavailable to some extent. Feelings make them uncomfortable and they dont know how to deal with them. Rather than work things out, they typically prefer to be alone when something is bothering them. As a woman, this can become extremely frustrating when your boyfriend or husband suddenly pulls away and becomes quiet and distant for no apparent reason. If a man has become distant, then something is bothering him even if he tells you everything is fine. However, it doesnt necessarily mean the relationship is bothering him. It could be stress from work. It could be a situation with his friends or family. It could be hes down on himself because he doesnt feel successful or is having a hard time obtaining his goals and dreams. It could be anything really. Just remember, men are problem solvers and, unlike women, they generally like to solve personal problems on their own. Many times men suddenly pull away when they start to feel like a woman is trying to change them or when they no longer feel admired in a relationship. Have you been complaining a lot about the things he does? Does he stay out too late? Does he spend too much time with his buddies and not with you? Does he not pick up after himself enough? If a man starts to feel like you only focus on his faults and flaws and have stopped admiring his amazing qualities you fell in love with, then he can immediately start to feel alienated and distant. He puts up a wall, becomes guarded and defensive, and shuts you out. Men also suddenly pull away when they no longer feel like they can make you happy. A man doesnt want to be RESPONSIBLE for keeping you happy and entertained. What men want is to make their woman happy, but they dont want to feel responsible for it. A man wants to know you can be completely happy with him and also completely happy without him. For example, if you have a miserable day being bored because youre stuck at home while he goes out with his buddies and then you make him feel responsible for it, then youll alienate him. Be independent enough to have your own life that doesnt require him to be by your side 24/7. A man may also pull away if you make him feel smothered in a relationship. This can happen if you try to advance into a serious relationship too fast or if youre already in a serious relationship and push for an engagement and marriage when hes not ready. If a man suddenly pulls away from you, dont chase him. What he needs is space. Do your own thing and dont pressure him. ------ Next, here are some awesome text message techniques you can use to text the romance back and spark interest and desire in your man. If you really want to create a deep desire in your man that will make you utterly irresistible to him so you can become the sole focus of his affection and make him fall in love with you, visit: How To Make A Guy Want You
