How to React When You See Your Ex With Someone Else
How to React When You See Your Ex With Someone Else When youre having a hard time getting over your ex and are desperately clinging to the idea of convincing him or her to come back to you, it can be a really devastating blow to see him or her with somebody else. Just hold on though, before you either break down or fly off the handle, here are some tips for dealing with this. First off, take a few deep breaths and relax. This isnt the end of the world...lots of people still get back together after exploring other options, and in some ways this could almost help you. SO, dont freak out. 90% of rebound relationships dont last...theyre insubstantial, mostly just done for simple relief from stress, and they have little to no foundation to them regardless of any apparent connections you may think you see between them. This person hes with isnt necessarily going to be his girlfriend of 3 years, then marriage. Chances are in your favor that hell discover the relationship isnt what he needs and hell break it off. A lot of the time, all the guy needs is a fresh face whos not associated with a bad breakup as well as a little time to get himself together. If you were in a passionate relationship with obvious mutual love, that doesnt change just because the times are rocky. He may not have dumped you because he didnt love you anymore...its much more likely that you two became so overexposed to one another that he lost sight of the great things and started fixating on the little bumps in the road that all relationships go through. So, give him space. Its natural that after a little while hell start dating again...hes trying to get a grip on the feelings that are blitzing through his mind...he needs to figure out if he can really make a life for himself that doesnt have you in it, and more than likely hell realize that life without you sucks a lot more than he thought it would. This is especially true if he finds himself exposed to other peoples flaws and problems. Leave him alone and focus on improving your own lifestyle...let him discover his mistakes while you correct yours. It probably wont be long before he starts really missing you, and if you have your life in order youll look all the more appealing - like a relief from the chaos that his life has become, a comfortable way out he knows and has come to appreciate a little more. Im not saying you wont have to put any effort into getting him back, but seeing other people isnt a bad thing for you regardless of whether its you or him doing it...and if he does it for very long he has a very good chance of becoming predisposed to getting back with you before you ever approach him. Its a nice way to "soften him up." So how do you actually go about getting him back? Well, thats not the focus of this article, but you can find out through the links below. There you can find a virtual treasure trove of free information and advice, as well as a fully-fleshed plan to get him back thats proven effective. Just break up? Get instant relief from break up pain and a proven plan to get your ex back. Do you have themagic of making up ebook? Watch a video that shows you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get your ex back and why at http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-attract-your-ex-lover-back You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.