Text Message Terrorism - What Not to Do to Get Your Ex Back
Text Message Terrorism - What Not to Do to Get Your Ex Back When your boyfriend decides to end the relationship, its easy to go into panic mode and do things you know you shouldnt but cant help but turn to. Fighting your first impulses isnt easy, but if you allow yourself to make the wrong mistakes, it can really hurt your chances of getting him back. Text Message Terrorism is one of those mistakes. For most people, this comes as a panic response to the worry that theyll lose their ex forever and in their minds its the only way they can think of to latch onto their ex and keep themselves on his mind. What Text-Message Terrorism refers to is the onslaught of constant phone calls, emails, and you guessed it, text messages. Not only does this violate the sacred "No Contact for a Month" rule that I set down for everybody in an immediate post-breakup situation, it puts you into a seriously bad position in your exs eyes. To be blunt, it makes you look clingy, desperate, and sometimes a little unstable. Taken to the extreme it can even be considered harassment! A far better way to deal with this is to follow that One Month of No Contact rule. It gives both of you some time to cool off and get your minds and lives settled, and lets the fiery breakup emotions turn to missing each other and wanting each other back. You KNOW its happening to you, and you can bet if you two really were close itll be happening to him --but ONLY if youre NOT there. Another grave mistake you can make is after that month is up, when you actively pursue him again. Too many people assume that their first instincts are the best course of action when it comes to getting your ex back, when theyre most decidedly not. To make this as smooth and easy as possible, youll need an underlying strategy, a plan that you know works. Without it, youre just setting yourself up for a lot of misery. How to getex back? Watch a video that shows you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get your ex back and why at http://hubpages.com/hub/howshouldiwoomyexback You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.