How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You and Want You Back

How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Miss You and Want You BackWhen you just get broken up with and you want him back, you can be faced with a serious dilemma.

It may seem like he wont come back to you on his own, but you know its a bad idea to put yourself all out there and risk appearing as desperate as you are. So how do you make HIM the one who does most of the convincing him to get back together?

Well, there are some pretty simple tactics, but I have to warn you...they can seem a little devious and manipulative. They toy with how his mind works, and at times it can seem almost unethical to puppet him around like this.

So, if youre really desperate to have him back this stuff can work for you, but its only for those who can live with feeling a little dirty at times. (Of course, you may jump at the idea of getting him back for the hurt hes caused you by tricking him into being the vulnerable one!)

Part 1: Shut him out. Some guys say they want to still be friends, and parts of you will want to pursue that thinking that the best way to get him back is to stay close to him...but here you want to do the opposite.

Cut contact entirely if possible. Nothing will make him miss you like not having you at all...because a little bit of a secret is that he probably still cares about you a whole lot and wouldnt be very happy if you werent in his life at all. This is an almost guaranteed way to get on his mind without having to jump at him.

Part 2: Never go out in public without looking the absolute best you ever have in your life. If that requires a little work to get into your best shape, then so be it. Itll be good for your self-image anyways to lose those couple pounds youve been scowling at or renovate your wardrobe with the latest styles.

Point is, look your absolute best at all times, and flaunt it. If he happens to see you looking amazing after a while of being without you, itll drive him crazy wondering why he let you go.

Part 3: I said to never go out in public without looking hot, but added onto that is that while looking hot you should go out a lot! Stay very socially active, with all your friends in all the best local hotspots. If you look half as good as you should be trying to, youll get loads of attention from other guys in the clubs or parties. If THAT gets back to your ex, he wont be able to stop thinking about you.

All of this stuff will work and grate on his mind, and hell beat himself up over whether or not it was the right choice to dump you. Youll have all the control when he finally approaches you...and how good would that feel?

Of course, as with any method this isnt flawless. It may not work 100% of the time, although it has a great chance at making him all but beg you back.

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