How Do I Take My Mind Off My Ex?
How Do I Take My Mind Off My Ex? When youre going through a breakup, sometimes all you want to do is forget about your ex for a while to give yourself some time to heal the hurt inside...even if you know you want him back. Unfortunately, its not always easy to do that. Luckily, there are some things you can do thatll help take your mind off your ex, and also potentially help you get him back if thats what you want. What you DONT want to do is sit around the house, pining. You see it on TV, and do you ever see anything good coming of it? Usually the poor girls friends come and bail her out of her problems with some wild trip to Rio or something, but that generally doesnt happen in real life. Instead what happens is that you virtually drown yourself in your own tears, and let the pain control your life. So instead of doing that, get up and get out! Go out with those friends, and have a good time! I know itll probably be hard to do with so much pain on your mind, but if you have to do it by sheer force of will...then do it! Its essential to break free of this, and refuse to let any boy mess up your life so badly that you cant still live it. Getting out there will not only help you get through your pain, if it gets back to your ex that youre out and about having fun and living life itll really earn you some respect. It may just make him start thinking that he misjudged what kind of person you are, and that you merit a second look. As odd as it seems, it psychologically intrigues people when they find out that theyre not your "life and soul," and that you can get along without them. Doesnt make much sense, but thats how it happens. So if you take advantage of this, not only are you clearing your head and moving past your pain but youre also tempting your ex into re-examining his hasty breakup. This combined with some other things you can do will have him begging you to take him back, and you will literally have the choice whether or not you want to. And guys, this can work for you too if you find yourself in a similar breakup situation...so dont worry because Ive been writing this from a womans perspective. You can do almost the same things and raise your chances of getting your ex back as you clear yourself of the breakup pain youve been fighting since the last big fight. Just break up? Get instant relief from break up pain and a proven plan to get your ex back. Can youget you ex back , cant you? Watch a video that shows you exactly what you must NEVER do, what you should do to get your ex back and why at http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-attract-your-ex-lover-back You will also learn how to reverse the situation if you have already done those things that should NEVER be done.