Does He Love You or Is it Only Lust?
Does he love you or is it only lust hes feeling? Is it a mixture of both? How can you tell? What should you do? Guys can be very confusing, but it is possible to unravel male psychology if you know how. Here are some telltale signs to look for. Then you will have your answer - Is it lust or does he love you?
First you should know a little something about male psychology. The anticipation of sex and sex triggers different chemical reactions in the brains of men and women. Men get a rush of testosterone when theyre turned on. This makes them aggressive. Women get a very different reaction that attaches them to the object of their desire. Thats why women fall in love when theyre turned on, while guys just lose interest after theyve had sex.
When Does He Call You?
Does he only call you when he wants sex or does he just love the sound of your voice? If its just for sex, then hes not in love. Keep him on the hook by not giving him what he wants. If he just calls another girl, then hes a player and you can forget about him. If he keeps chasing you, try to make a strong emotional connection. If it clicks between you - great! If not, dont stop dating other guys.
Does He Show You He Cares?
If a guy is only after sex, he might say all the words a girl wants to hear, but the little things will be missing. He wont send cute text messages at random times or call her out of the blue, just to talk. He wont be there for you when youre feeling down and he wont be tuned into the things that make you happy. If he really cares, he will always want to make you happy, even when you say "No." Does he love you? - probably!
Does He Hold You?
Men arent as emotionally demonstrative as women until theyve fallen head over heels in love. When youre out on a date with him does he put his arm around you in a formal way or does he draw you into him like he wants to keep you close? When youre alone together, does he love to just snuggle up close to you, even after sex? If he does, then count on it - he really has fallen for you.
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This article is contributed by Tina Jones from the Unforgettable Woman Publishing Team. She works together with founder Alexandra Fox and writes dating/relationship articles for women. You can find more about Unforgettable Woman Publishing by visiting their website.